Turning Struggles Into Strength: A Dialogue on Survival and Growth

By Joseph Iyaji | Akahi News

Scene: A quiet evening discussion between a young man and his mentor. The young man is weighed down by financial burdens, family needs, and the uncertainty of his future.

Young Man: Sir, I feel stuck. Everywhere I turn, I see competition — in business, in education, even in small hustles like bike riding. I’ve tried many things but nothing seems to work. How do I survive this season?

Mentor: You’re not alone in that feeling. Many people around the world face similar battles. The question isn’t only “what can I do?” but “what can I keep doing consistently?” Survival often lies in persistence with wisdom.

Young Man: But what if my income is unstable? For example, running a tutorial centre depends on seasons. Sometimes I get students, other times none.

Mentor: That’s the nature of seasonal businesses. The secret is to use the “plenty months” to cushion the “dry months.” Instead of depending only on one stream, create side channels of income that don’t need huge investment — like digital services, partnerships, or content that can keep earning even when you’re asleep.

Young Man: I thought about riding Okada for daily survival, but I’m worried about my reputation. If people see me as an Okada rider, will they still trust me as an educator or journalist?

Mentor: Don’t let shame tie your hands. Honest work is never a crime. The same people who mock you today will respect you tomorrow if they see your resilience lead to success. What matters is how you manage your image. You can ride to survive, but still carry your press card, still write, still show the world you’re more than one hustle.

Young Man: But what about police harassment? If they stop me, should I tell them I’m a journalist?

Mentor: Yes, respectfully. It gives them a broader picture of who you are. But also remember: when you’re on the bike, you’re under traffic law like every other rider. Carry your papers, keep your dignity, and let your conduct speak for you.

Young Man: My biggest worry is my family. House rent, school fees, feeding, medical bills — everything is pressing at once. How do I manage when what I earn can’t cover all?

Mentor: Start by writing down your expenses, from the most urgent to the least. Focus on survival essentials: food, shelter, health. Then negotiate or spread out the rest. Sometimes, help doesn’t come until you’ve shown you’ve managed wisely with the little in your hand.

Young Man: So, you’re saying I shouldn’t give up?

Mentor: Exactly. What you need is not to abandon everything but to rearrange your steps. Small moves daily will bring a shift. Even in a crowded market, your uniqueness can still shine if you stay consistent.

Final Word

Life’s battles are real, and the burdens can be heavy. But as this conversation shows, shame should never stop honest survival, and fear should never paralyse creativity. Whether it is running a business, taking a side hustle, or building a skill, the secret is to keep moving while keeping hope alive.

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