Dr Paul Oyebiyi Teaches on Cultural Influences in Marriage at Catholic Training in Ede

As part of its continued effort to strengthen Christian marriages and family life, the Catholic Diocese of Osogbo hosted the second phase of its marriage training at the Pastoral Centre in Ede, Osun State, where Dr Paul Oyebiyi delivered a profound teaching on the impact of differing cultural backgrounds in marriage.

The training, organised by the Marriage, Family and Human Life Commission of the Diocese, was conducted under the supervision and direction of Rev. Fr Patrick Ajayi, with the approval of the Bishop of Osogbo Diocese, Most Rev. John Akinkunmi Oyejola.

In his teaching, Dr Oyebiyi carefully examined both the positive and negative dimensions of cultural diversity in marital relationships. He explained that while cultural differences between spouses could sometimes lead to misunderstanding and friction, they also offer valuable opportunities for growth, enrichment, and deeper mutual understanding when properly managed.

“Our cultural backgrounds influence how we communicate, resolve conflicts, raise children, and express love,” he said. “When these differences are not acknowledged or respected, they become obstacles. But with patience, love, and a willingness to learn, couples can turn them into strengths that unify rather than divide.”

Drawing from Scripture and practical examples, Dr Oyebiyi encouraged couples to build bridges across cultural divides, cultivating empathy and shared values rooted in the teachings of the Church. He also underscored the importance of open dialogue, forgiveness, and humility in overcoming cultural challenges in marriage.

Participants applauded the session as insightful, timely, and deeply relevant in today’s complex social landscape. Many expressed renewed commitment to understanding their spouses better and applying the lessons in their homes.

The Diocese’s Marriage, Family and Human Life Commission continues to receive commendations for its impactful training initiative, which seeks to build strong Catholic homes grounded in love, faith, and mutual respect.